Stop being a pussy: live a life of no regrets

By Sasha Fedorovsky

A lot of people fear looking back at their life and having regrets. Regret is an awful feeling that can eat away at a person because once the time has passed there is no turning back the clock for a replay. Sometimes it’s hard to know what worlds or actions you will or won’t regret at the time because the consequences are not always automatic and the things you do now can affect you long into the future. There is only one known way to insure a regret free life… DON’T BE A PUSSY.

 

If you want to insure yourself against dreaded regret always take the brave path – not the stupid one (there’s a difference). Don’t let fear direct any choices you make in your life because this will ultimately lead to the compounding of regret.

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Here are some tips on how to not be a pussy and thus regret free..

 

  • Do it, despite the fear of the unknown
  • Try hard, even if you are afraid of failure
  • Ask the question even if you are afraid of knowing the answer
  • Express your feelings even if you are afraid of rejection
  • Open yourself up, even if you risk getting hurt
  • Stand up for what you think is right
  • Leave a relationship that you aren’t happy in
  • What other people think is non of your business
  • Don’t do anything just because you are comfortable
  • Try something new
  • Speak your mind
  • Take criticism well and use it to improve
  • Take the first step
  • Do it today, not tomorrow
  • Ask for what you want
  • Be yourself…Everyone else is taken
  • Trust your instincts as opposed to what you are told
  • Don’t follow the crowd if it goes against your principles

Failure is part of the journey to success so if you haven’t failed, then you haven’t been trying hard enough. It sounds strange because that is not the way we experienced learning in our first 18 years in the school system, but life is not an academic curriculum and there really are no correct answers on the journey of life. In the end we are the ones that will grade our own lives and no one else. So take some risks, choose your own adventure and never let fear decide your fate.

Oh and remember…

Hate is not the opposite of love it’s fear.

 

Love S. xox

 

 

About Sasha Fedorovsky - S from 'The V&S Show'!