‘The Hot girl effect’
One of the major differences in women and men lies in a phenomenon called the ‘hot girl effect’. This phenomenon occurs when a man becomes much more attractive in the eyes of women because he is with a hot girl (I’m talking punching waaay above his weight). This example in it’s most extreme form is a below average looking guy who happens to score a stunning woman or is desired by her; in the eyes of other women his appeal has risen through the roof for some unknown reason.
This scenario doesn’t work the opposite way around, a guy is either attracted to a woman or not (sorry ladies we tend to get the short straw in these matters). For a man attraction is purely visual. It’s a strange phenomenon but it works every time; when a girl discovers that her potential suitors ex-girlfriend is a stunner somehow she finds the man more desirable. It’s as if women feed of other women and value their opinions, maybe the guy has something incredible that she hasn’t discovered or maybe he is much more attractive then what she originally thought.
For women there is no real way to capitalize on this phenomenon, maybe just be aware of it when you ‘suddenly’ become more attracted to a man. But for men, the advantages are huge.
How an average bloke can capitalize on ‘the hot girl effect’ …
Get yourself some hot female friends. It’s way easier to score hot female friends then you think, you just need to use a little bit of restraint and never ever make a move on them. You would be surprised but girls love the idea of male friends, it’s just that often those ‘friends’ unsuspectingly go in for the goodies. Don’t be one of those dudes. Make some lady friends, take them out and tell them you want to meet the ‘right girl’. Females love a pet project like helping a ‘nice’ average guy out with his love life (not sex life, LOVE life). Who knows one of them may actually fall for you – because you’re not trying to get in her pants. The only word of caution is to make sure you don’t appear as the ‘gay’ friend… so limit the trendy clothes and no extravagant hand gestures or else you will be getting all the wrong attention and will just end up making more female friends…We all know how much you just wanna be friends.
The other way is to pretend to date a hot girl, or at least convince one to show up with you as your date…kind of like an escort but a whole lot cheaper. If you’re thinking how the F are you meant to get a hot girl to go on a pretend date with you, that’s almost as hard as asking for a real date! The best way to go about it is to ask a girl directly if she will be your date so that her beauty will convince the girl you are actually interested in to date you. She will instantly be creped out by the proposal but flattered at the same time (no matter how much we deny it we love a compliment) and finally she may even feel jealous that you have no interest in her and may see it as a challenge. Naturally she will agree.
Women can’t help but look at attractive women. After they see her they will see you with her and become very curious…curiosity will turn into interest. You will be shocked at how many women will be giving you the eye. Taken people are always more desirable… It’s human nature; kind of like celebrities who get everything for free once they make plenty of money (not when they were struggling artists, who couldn’t get a dollar for their nude photos).
Be prepared to receive attention, don’t act surprised because it may break the spell of your extreme desirability. If you question yourself the girls may begin to question you too. Now you have created the illusion of attractiveness, milk it buddy. Once you have managed to hook a girl who wouldn’t generally give you 2 seconds of her time (because her rating on the hotness scale is at least double of yours) don’t drop the ball because you need to maintain an air of confidence. The biggest mistake you could make at this point is show her that you’re surprised that she is interested, act as if you meet women like her everyday (not just in your early morning imagination).
Thank me later gentlemen ;)
Love S. xox